Wednesday, July 11, 2012

Check Out My Awesome Awards!

I received this wonderful award from the lovely and talented Cecilia Robert, Thank you so much for thinking of me.



 List your 5 favorite books:
This is never an easy task for me because I truly love my books...and I have lots and lots of books...here's a pic to give you an idea.

So if I HAVE to pick 5....
1-Living with Joy
2-Spiritual Growth
3-Ishmael
4-Cowboy Daddy, Jingle-Bell Baby (strange title, great characters)
5-Pawns and Symbols

5 Fabulous Moments

1-My kids have provided me with amazing moments over the years, from holding my last child who weighed a little over 2 lbs at birth, watching my 3 eldest practice martial arts and obtain their black belts, to seeing my son perform onstage for the first time (singer/songwriter/musician).
2-Working with people who have MS, I developed a program to help them maintain and regain mobility, and during our Christmas dinner, my group (including a woman who had been confined to a wheel chair for 9 years) stood and danced before entire room.
3-Teaching martial arts, watching so many different people (young, old, talented, challenged, boy, girl) learn and evolve. Seeing their expressions when they succeed.
4-Flying a plane for the first time.
5-Sitting with my grandmother on the front porch of her house, and watching her stare out at the mountains and lake. She did this every day, but every day it was as though she was seeing it for the first time. She truly appreciated the beauty that surrounded us.



5 Things I Love

1-Playing music, being part of a band or orchestra, the way the music flows right through you.
2-Smelling snow in the air, and watching the first snow fall.
3-Crisp automn air, wearing thick wool sweaters and being surrounded by the mountains of many colors. Making the first fire of the season...with its wonderful smell.
4-Getting lost in a good book.
5-Cuddling.

5 Things I Dislike

1-Dishonest people who hurt or take advantage of others
2-Injustice
3-The double standards in life
4-Cruelty to people or animals
5-Violence, in any form

5 People I would like to share this award with

M.J. Kane
Anna Simpson
Carly
Mudd Lavoie
Jill Marie

Monday, July 9, 2012

Review Attitude

Over the past year I have thrown myself into the world of published authors, bloggers, reviewers and more. I am learning as I go, and I read, attend webinars, share, discuss, question, and then apply what I learn. I’ll let you know what this experience has taught me at the end of my post.

Previously, I have covered reviews, getting your stars and blog tour etiquette. Today I want to talk to you about review attitude. Now, keep in mind that I am very calm and quite pensive as I write this. ;o)

I recently had my book reviewed by someone who actually made me laugh, not because there was anything funny with what she had to say, in fact it could be compared to giving my book to a giant, angry dog and letting him have a go at it. My concern here is that she took my book personally, and I have to admit I was a little at a loss by the reaction.

Let me explain…her reaction to the book would have been fitting if I had said “Here, this book will point out what you’ve missed out on in life, show you where you went wrong and tell you how you should live instead,”  …which is not, in any way, what the book is about, but The Four Agreements by don Miguel Ruiz http://www.amazon.ca/Four-Agreements-Toltec-Wisdom-Collection/dp/1878424580  might be a good book for her to consider.

In any case I did laugh at her outburst or rant, (more fitting than review) because I have developed a thick skin over the years to similar reactions. There are a few people in my entourage who have a tendency to act the same way. Sadly, it doesn’t excuse it or make it right.

Whether we realize it or not, everything we’ve gone through in life has served one purpose…to make us who we are today. Our reactions to what goes on around us are filtered and interpreted through our past experiences. So my guess is that if a wholesome family life is an irritant to you, you didn’t have one. So should your comments about it be to berate it and call it ‘not normal’? Then again, it’s a work of fiction…why would it provoke such a strong negative reaction…? And should the review be based on that?

I believe there has to be a balance between the emotional and objective sides in a review, and I hope a good measure of professionalism is always added.

Unfortunately , in this case the reviewer felt attacked by my characters’ vegetarianism, stating that they made her feel guilty for eating meat and even felt that the book was pushing the issue. I would also venture that she has never met any homeschooling families, because her reaction was far from the reality I have had the pleasure of encountering…and well, there could be more, but enough said.

The amazing thing about writing fiction is that you can write and create anything you want. If I am creating a culture where children are raised in test-tubes and sent off to hunt and provide for the adults, (in hopes that he/she survives to adulthood and become safe and provided for), then so be it. After that, if you don’t like it, you don’t like it. But don’t like what…one or all of the characters, the story line, the world created, the way it was written?
If I am writing a character I want you to be angry with or even hate, I hope that I won't be hearing "Loved so-and-so in that story".

Fortunately most comments on my book are very positive, so I am not berating the review or reviewer…just wondering about review standards.  It’s like test driving a car…there is not one car today that will please everyone, but there has to be a set of standards to follow when evaluating cars. Why not books? 

I was surprised by author Steve Piacente’s remark during a recent webinar, when he said he was very careful about who he sent his books to for review. I couldn't understand why he would say such a thing at the time.
In the past I have learned that someone who “hates” sci-fi should not review my book. I have also learned NOT to take for granted that the person asking to review had actually read the blurb and knows it's sci-fi…and now I have learned to read up on past posts and reviews by the one asking for a review copy, just to see what kind of reviewer I’m dealing with.



Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Erik the Great, from This Kid Reviews Books

I cannot tell you how thrilled I am to be able to present this amazng young man to all of you. Erik the Great, a young blogger and reviewer who has his own site "This Kid Reviews Books" has made quite an impression on me. He is smart, humble, intelligent and someone you want to get to know. I greatly respect his dedication to books, authors and readers, and I believe we should spread the word. He sets a good example for other blogger/reviewers to follow and comes across with  maturity and an impressive attitude far beyond his age.



Could you tell us a little about yourself?

I would like to thank you for asking me to do this interview Ms. Brown! I live in a family of four with a younger sister and super nice parents. Besides reading, I also really love to build with LEGOs. I am a part of a LEGO robotics team in the Junior LEGO League. I have a first degree junior black belt in TaeKwon-Do. I have been studying TaeKwon-Do for close to five years. I like to swim, fish and camp (especially roasting marshmallows on a campfire and making s’mores). I have a fish named Tommy and I hope we are getting a dog soon.


If I may be so bold, how old are you and how long have you been reviewing books?

I am ten years-old and going into the fifth grade. I started my blog in January 2011 and I started reviewing books for my town’s local newspaper in January 2012.

What gave you the idea to start a blog?

I got the idea to review books when my grandmother told me she was shopping for a book for me and didn’t know what to buy. A kid in the store told her to get me “The Strange Case of Origami Yoda”. He said it was a good book and that I would like it, so she bought it. Well, it is a good book and I did like it. I thought that if my grandmother would take the advice of a kid maybe people would read reviews that I write and it could help other kids and grown-ups find books they like. I told my parents I would like to write reviews in newspapers, but my Dad suggested a blog as a place to start.



How much help/support do you get from your parents/family?

I get a lot of support and help from my parents (not just with the blog but life in general). My family (including my little sister, Josie) is very supportive. My parents make sure everything on my blog or things sent to me is kid-friendly. They are always telling me about internet safety. They help me by proof-reading things I write and help me with getting pictures and information about books and authors off the internet. My little sister sometimes helps me with younger-kid books. I’ll ask her what she thinks about certain books and it helps me write my review.

What is your favourite type of book to read?

I pretty much like every genre, but I really love to read fantasy/science fiction books (like Amethyst Eyes ;) ). I like how it makes you use your imagination. I also am very fond of history and historical fiction.

How do you deal with a book you don’t like?

I think the hardest part about reviewing a book is saying that I really don’t like it. I try to be very honest when I write reviews and I always try to say why I didn’t like something in a way that is polite. A good thing is that I usually like something about every book I read! For example, if I don’t really like the plot of a book there is usually a good character or illustrations that I can write something nice about. I still will give the book a lower rating, but I can say what I did and didn’t like about it.

Have you ever considered writing a book?

I actually have written a book! I wrote it for a school project two years ago and I really liked it. I kept adding to the story and editing it. It is now about 10,000 words long. I am hoping it will be an early chapter book. I have had a couple professional authors read and critique it. This summer I am editing it and re-writing parts. I hope that someday I can publish or self-publish it. The book is called “The Adventures of Tomato and Pea.” Here’s a summary of it:

Tomato is the planet Oarg’s greatest crime-stopper (Pea is his sidekick). The diabolical villain Wintergreen and his gang have been trying to get rid of Tomato and his friends and take over Oarg for years. In a plan gone bad, Wintergreen and his gang and Tomato and his friends, get caught in a rocket ship and crash land on a strange planet called EAR-TH. The story follows the fighting bunch of aliens on EAR-TH as they try to get along and survive on the strange planet.

What would you like to be/do when you grow up?

I really would like to be an inventor. I like building things and creating. I am always trying to learn how things work and why they work the way they do. I also like to write a lot. I think I would like to be an author and write about things that interest me.

How involved are you in community reading activities? Can you tell us a little about them?

At the moment I am clueless about local reading activities because we just moved to a completely new town. Where I used to live, I was in a boy’s books club that met once a month at my local bookstore. I went to a lot of book signings and activities at my local bookstore and library. We are going to find the local library this week in our new town and I hope that they have programs like my old library had. I am doing a summer reading list for my new school. If there isn’t a kid book club here, I want to start one.

I’m sure you’ve come across kids who don’t like to read. Do you have anything to tell them that might motivate them to get into reading?

I usually ask them “What do you like to do?”Or “What are you interested in?” and then I suggest books that have to do with what they like. My parents never tried to make me read. They would always leave books around on subjects I was interested in (like superheroes or nature) and I would end up reading because I liked the subject. I also think that some kids who don’t like to read will like comics or graphic novels. Even if a kid is just reading a Peanuts comic strip, they are still reading.

What do you think about violence in our books? Television, movies and videos have a rating system, but books do not. (I’ve come across some scary things over the years). How much is too much? How do you think violence impacts readers?

For real young kids I think there shouldn’t be any violence (unless it’s cartoonish, like Batman clobbering the Joker). For my age and reading level I think books with a little or vaguely described violence is OK. For example, I read a book called “George Washington’s Socks” by Elvira Woodruff. The book takes place during the Revolutionary War and it gives the reader an idea of how harsh the war was. There were battles, injuries and death in the book but it didn’t go into a lot of detail and made it a great book for grade school-aged kids. I think in that book’s case the violence helped in the plot because I learned about a historical event. My parents won’t let me read books with any graphic violence in it or books with real “dark” plots. They decide how much is too much for me, but I also don’t care to read anything too violent. I think that letting young kids read (or watch) a lot of graphic violence changes them so that they may become violent and/or maybe think that it’s a normal thing.


Here is the link to Erik's blog, a great place to stop by and find out what he thinks about the books he's read. Personally, I wish my reviews were as great as his own. He puts much thought into what he writes.
http://thiskidreviewsbooks.com/

and if you're up for a littel more reading, here is his post on Amethyst Eyes
http://thiskidreviewsbooks.com/2012/05/14/amethyst-eyes-by-debbie-brown/